For me, to become a better communicator means following the way of Jesus Christ as He speaks tothe crowd. It is an invitation for me to imitate Jesus Christ's procedure of communication, namely: silence, listening and sharing. These three degrees are always interconnected in the spirit of prayer.
For me, to become a better communicator is not only to become a good speaker, because being a good speaker is only a part of being a good communicator. Being a good communicator requires valuing silence. I believe that in silence, one may able to organize one's thoughts; one may able to plan for one's actions and speaking engagement; one may able to put an in-depth view of one's topic or idea; and, one may able to understand things which the noisy surroundings cannot understand. "It is in the silence that helps us to go beyond the entertainment quality of our lives."[1]
Instead of referring to speaking as talking or discussing, I prefer to use the word sharing,because for me to become a better communicator is not only speaking, talking or discussing something but a person must able to "walk the talk" – to put into actions and practice all of the ideas that he or she uttered. Moreover, aperson must able to impart what he or she has done already or must be done for the good of all. It is in the act of sharing that a person communicates noto nly in words but in also in concrete actions.
After discussing the degrees of becoming a better communicator, it is necessary to connect it in the vantage point of prayer. For me, it is in the prayer life of an individual that one may able to put "soul" in all of the "meats" of his or her communication. One's communication to others becomes more and more valuable,and even priceless if it is the result of one's prayer life. Even if the person uses ordinary words, if he or she is talking in the spirit of prayer, like Jesus, nobody has ever talked the way this one!
[1] Nouwen,Henry, The Only Necessary Thing: Living a Prayerful Life (Quezon City: Claretian Publications, 1999).
[2] Covey,Stephen, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change (New York: Fireside, 1989).
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